and i got too busy

21/11/25

my new year resolution is to be live a little slower

think i had the same resolution as i went into 2025

just seem to get so busy i keep getting myself into courses, extra work, school deadlines deadlines, work and school tasks, etc. ugh.

i've failed miserably at living slower

i want to feel that peaceful, serene quiet of walking around the neighborhood at 2am, but as a general vibe in my life, instead of feeling that CBD lunch hour rush vibe all the time

does that make sense?

anime drawing of night time

maybe i just can't sit still? anyway. next year my resolution will still be to live a little slower.

i will do nothing and everything i want (which can only be done when i'm doing nothing)

for example, i cannot read a book peacefully knowing that i have things to do before a deadline.

i cannot play my games, i cannot build my mecha, nor can i mod my consoles, if something "important" is always looming over my shoulder.

you get it, right??

blank spaces

a concept brought up by a youtuber i discovered recently (Samurai Life of Stay At Home Dad), was about blank spaces and how where he lives now (malaysia) has a lot of blank spaces, compared to where he was from (i'm assuming tokyo)

what he means by blank space is - having rests, silence. the convenience store isn't open 24/7, the town goes to sleep at night. there are no deadlines, no tasks, to think about when you should be relaxing.

existing for existence's sake.

i know they say get busy living or get busy dying.

but living a busy life makes me feel like i'm dying.

was this what buddha chased?

the eternal state of chill?

maybe.

my dream life is to live simply, as a simple man. that's how i will pursue my happiness

and at the end of the day when i'm old as shit and my bones creak and i might die any second i just want to think - "ah that was fun! i wanna do it all over again"


chillin,
chxshire22

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trickybus · Nov 22, 2025

It's a tough resolution to fulfill but a worthy one. For me, it feels like I'm stuck in an endless loop of things to do. Important things, mundane things, all the things. I'm tired of having things to do. I want to feel completely unburdened by being alive for once.

chxshire22 · Nov 22, 2025

@trickybus, yes! exactly how i feel right now. i've considered having a holiday where i don't do anything but laze around a hotel, wake up at 12pm get a pina colada and have bbq... mmmmm what a dream

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